Recently I've reminded a number of people in my life of a sturdy ole saying. It takes two. Typically in the context of relationships. Not that I'm an expert. The hilarity of that thought practically brought tears to my eyes from painful belly laughs. Nope.
I have developed listening skills though. Chalk it up to years of being the quiet, thoughtful guy in the room. Mostly I just stayed out of the fray. Not competing with those dominating. Taking that bait often just jacked me up unnecessarily. Which wore me down faster. So I listened.
What I learned, and discovered I was pretty good at actually, was